Guilt

Guilt, the other side of this feeling is accusation. A person from time to time experiences feelings of guilt and pays for them in different ways. In actuality only an individual who inadvertently becomes a cause of something bad, feels guilty and suffers. For an example: A misfortune happened in a family. An uncle was pouring boiling water into a cup and accidentally spilled it on his 5-year-old niece's hand. The terrible burn and agony of the little girl caused her uncle immeasurable torment. He felt guilty and could not forgive himself. The girl's parents accused him of being negligent and said that they will never trust him with their child again. The uncle knew that they were right and punished himself even more. The corroding guilt in his chest eventually manifested itself as a serious illness, despite the little girl's complete recovery.


Despite everything, guilt is the only proper feeling that could motivate and lead to the right conclusion. You must not justify revenge or envy but you may justify guilt. Very often people accuse one another due to a misunderstanding and then feel guilty for it. Unfortunately, the guilt of the offender does not take away the resentment of the offended. Hurt caused in childhood may lead to improperly formed convictions in an adult. As a consequence he might take the blame for somebody else's bad deed, even sacrifice his life and not understand what made him do so. For an example: 10 year-old Michael comes home with a report card full of bad grades. His parents yell at him, humiliate him, and later find out that Michael was innocent. Another student with the same last name received those bad grades and the school administration made a mistake. Deep hurt for his parents' unjust accusation crept into the boy's feelings. 20 years later Michael was visiting a friend when police came with a search warrant. Counterfeit money was found in the friend's house. Demonstrating his loyalty, Michael said that the money belonged to him, though it was not true. Michael was facing criminal charges.

RULE FOR EVERYONE:

NEVER ACCEPT BLAME FOR ANOTHER PERSON! LEARN NOT TO GIVE IN TO SUCH TEMPTATION!

In order to get rid of inherited from ancestors fear, you have to accept guilt for all your bad deeds. In other words, you are to put yourself on trial in the following fashion. Inside of you there are two people: one is kind, strong, and courageous, another evil and week has a desire to look like a hero. Mentally vomit the evil self out with the words: "Get out of my feelings forever!" In order to do this exercise right, visualize a holographic image of someone evil before you and vomit your evil self on that person. When you finish, mentally burn away the holographic image with everything that you vomited on it and fill yourself up with soft yellow energy of love. Do this exercise very realistically so that when it is completed you experience liberation and lightness inside.


A person does not like to look for his own guilt; he is satisfied to think that others are guilty. People live by the principle 'Time is money' and do not realize that this way they rob themselves. It is imperative that they stop and examine their feelings. Take notice of how easy it is to hurt another person's feelings and how hard it is to apologize for it. In biblical times people who knew and loved Jesus Christ swore that they were not guilty of crimes committed by others against him. However their innocence did not make fear disappear and life become sweeter. It is easy to laugh at yourself and others, listening to satire and comedy, yet feelings of heaviness and depression do not vanish from laughter. Even if the entire humanity is displayed as laughable, the emptiness and senselessness lay as heavy burden on mankind throughout time. Everyone must know that true threat to human life comes from any feeling of fear whether it is hatred, vengeance, jealousy, resentment, or envy. That fear builds up on the inside like a bomb and it is very important to know how to get the better of it. Under any circumstances if fettered by fear, a person has to gather his courage and look himself in the eye. After that he has to separate himself from the hatred caused by his own helplessness as well as all of the fear that squeezes him inside then throw this entire baggage out of his feelings. The process: With the eyes closed he says to himself: "Calm down." Mentally inside he separates himself into two people, one is terrorized by fear, another is confident and firm in his convictions. The confident person throws the terrorized one out with words: "Get out of my feelings!"


Out of fear of evil people seek to justify executioners. Many spiritual people tried to justify even Adolph Hitler, calling him "a lost soul" who does not realize what he is doing. Such ignorant perception of evil proves that people know nothing about their own feelings, because that particular "lost soul" in order to seize the world, destroyed millions of the innocent proving that evil is stronger. One must not believe the words of anyone who promises everything to one nation while destroying another nation. One must not believe naïve people who believe that respected people cannot be evil. Evil has destructive power of unimaginable proportions and it is impossible to fight if you know nothing about feelings.


Unfortunately, not everyone is aware of the fact that the one who purposely harms another never feels guilt. For an example: Rita and Jane were best friends and worked in the same field. Both were married. Rita had problems in her marriage and for hours cried and complained about it to Jane. When Rita's husband left her, Jane comforted and supported Rita. Fortunately five years later Rita met a man and got married. Rita's new life with her husband gradually distanced her friendship with Jane. They rarely saw each other anymore. Rita constantly felt guilty that she spent so much time with her beloved husband. Jane always demonstrated to Rita her hurt and jealousy on the subject. Later Rita found out that her first husband left her because of Jane with whom he had an affair.
Take notice, Jane did not feel guilty toward Rita for ruining her family, because she believed that Rita would never find out about it.


Only people who have conscience experience feelings of guilt. Conscience prevents crimes and makes a person a human being. As a rule, a person feels guilty when he honestly believes himself to be a cause of misfortune. For an example: An 11-year-old boy played outside and forgot to come home on time. His mother started to worry and went looking for him. Upset, she crossed the street and was hit by a car. The mother ended up in a hospital. The boy found out about it and accept the accident as his fault.
Due to the inner fear people form an illusion that they are always able to control their actions. Therefore, if a situation overpowered the person and as a result against his will something bad happened, he feels guilty. That is to say, the boy in an example above did not deserve to suffer from guilt, because he just got carried away playing.


You can become free from this particular feeling of guilt with the help of this exercise. Read it and follow with your eyes closed: Mentally go back to the time when you felt guilty. Change events so that the end would be a happy one. Now realize that guilt is blocking love within you. Mentally take out guilt from your chest; it looks like a huge grey-black rock. Fill yourself with soft yellow energy of love.
Everyone has to know that the feeling of guilt by its accusation stands in the way of seeing people who vindictively and intentionally cause pain. The person who believes himself guilty is usually so preoccupied with self-inflicted punishment that takes no notice of the one who does evil purposely and goes unpunished.

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